One day, I was talking with a group of my girlfriends. We hadn’t seen each other in a while, and we had a long game of checkup. But as the conversation went on it turned into, well let’s be honest, a bitchfest. It got to the point where it was constant one up game of who hasn’t accomplished what, who was still single, who had kids but no husband, a husband but no kids, who had a degree they didn’t use, or were in job that they hated. There was one common theme. They all felt they hadn’t lived up to expectations. Expectations from society, their family, their peers… Themselves.…